The Porn Myth & By Man Shall His Blood Be Shed

The Porn Myth.  By Matt Fradd, Ignatius Press, 2017.

 

By Man Shall His Blood Be Shed: A Catholic Defense of Capital Punishment.  By Edward Feser and Joseph Bessette, Ignatius Press, 2017.

 

Normally, when Ignatius Press sends me books to review, they are placed in a white cardboard envelope with a letter describing the book.  When I received The Porn Myth and By Man Shall His Blood Be Shed (on separate occasions), they contained something extra.  The Porn Myth was wrapped in shiny black paper, while By Man Shall His Blood Be Shed was encased in brown paper wrapping, with a big sticker with a statue of Blind Justice pasted upon it.  In both cases I was intrigued.  What about these particular books gave the privilege about being done up like Christmas presents, while all of the other review copies I receive go out completely unadorned.  I unwrapped them, and found the aforementioned titles. 

 

Both address controversial topics– The Porn Myth does not contain any actual dirty pictures, but instead explains why pornography addiction is real and how it harms people who view it in various ways.  It’s a very wholesome book, given its desire to help people who may be suffering, but given the title you can’t read it on the bus without getting a lot of funny looks and probably some unwanted comments.  Meanwhile, By Man Shall His Blood Be Shed addresses the hot-button issue of capital punishment.  Both are strong conversation starters.

 

The description of The Porn Myth explains that the purpose of the book is to illustrate that pornography has a destructive effect on not just people who look at it, but on those around them as well”

 

"The Porn Myth is a non-religious response to pro-pornography arguments. It draws from the experience of porn performers, recent research from neurology, sociology, and psychology to build a case for why pornography is destructive to individuals, relationships, and society. Matt Fradd provides insightful arguments, including the latest scientific research, on nearly every relevant subject imaginable, exposing the negative impact pornography has on our minds, our relationships, and our culture.

This book addresses the neurological reasons porn is addictive, helps individuals learn how to be free of porn, and offers real help to parents and the spouses of porn users.

Thanks to such new research on pornography's harmful effects on the brain, on relationships, and on society, there is today a wave of passionate individuals trying to change the cultural norm inspiring others to pursue real love and avoid its hollow counterfeit. Today's younger generation wants a love that is untainted by warped perceptions of intimacy and by selfish desires. Millions are now recognizing pornography for what it is and rejecting its influence in their lives. This book is part of that movement.

The Porn Myth will help readers to separate the myths from the reality about porn, and to reclaim real love in their lives. Matt Fradd masterfully articulates and dispels the falsehoods that have helped to spread porn addiction and sexual dysfunction, and he inspires us to take action against them."

Throughout the book, we see glimpses of couples who can’t connect on all sorts of levels, we see stories of deep-seated loneliness and emotional isolation, and we also see heartbreak in multiple forms.  It’s not an easy book to read, for after all, it’s a story about addiction and pain, bad choices and seeming hopelessness.  Yet there’s a deep, counter-cultural poignancy to every page, as our sex-saturated popular culture suddenly stops looking glamorous and starts looking tawdry and sick.

 

In an interview, the author, Matt Fradd, described his personal experiences with pornography:

 

“I was looking at porn every day and when the Internet came it was good night; it was multiple times a day,” said Fradd.

                          

But at the age of 17, Fradd attended World Youth Day in Rome and experienced a conversion, yet his addiction to porn persisted.

 

“I was living a duplicitous life - these two sorts of views of the human person cannot live in the same mind for long,” said Fradd.

 

What eventually broke Fradd's dependency was realizing Christ's passion redeems all humanity, extending to those featured in pornography. No longer could he gaze at an image without recognizing the dignity of the person.

 

“There's an old stereotype that if you're against porn you're against sex,” said Fradd, attacking the myth that pornography prevents sexual repression. “There's a third option, ya' know - chastity, that virtue, which enables you and me to love in accord with our dignity.

 

“We have science and love on our side and the porn industry has the money,” said Fradd.”

 

Fradd’s book is propelled by a desire to make society a better place, as he outlines all of the different ways that relationships ranging from marriages to friendships can be harmed by this form of sex addiction.  In comparison, By Man Shall His Blood Be Shed addresses the issue of capital punishment, and argues that it is a morally licit form of justice that is in accordance with Catholic teaching.  In recent years, there have been an increasing number of voices coming from the very top of the Church arguing that the death penalty is unacceptable morally, and Feser and Bessette make a point of addressing all of the arguments against capital punishment as they try to refute those perspectives.

 

They write:

 

“The restoration of what Aquinas calls “the equality of justice” by inflicting on the offender a harm proportionate to his offense is known as retribution, and it one of the three traditional purposes of punishment, the others being correction or rehabilitation of the offender and the deterrence of those tempted to commit the same crimes the offender has. Other purposes are incapacitation … and restitution.

 

Society will lose sight, first of the idea of proportionality, then of the idea of desert, and finally of the idea of punishment itself. And when the idea of punishment goes, the very idea of justice will go with it, replaced by a therapeutic or technocratic model that treats human beings as cases to be managed and socially engineered [rather] than as morally responsible persons. Nothing less is at stake in the death-penalty debate.”

 

While I am not sure that many people who are deeply convinced that the death penalty is a moral evil will be completely swayed by the arguments in this book, while reading this, I was reminded of my experiences in high school, when entire days were devoted to the exploration of studying perspectives on major issues like the death penalty.  We read a wide variety of opinions from all sorts of people on capital punishment, and a book like this would definitely find a place on a such a reading list, and any debate team would be advised to study a book like this, though there are many other arguments against capital punishment would be brought up in response.

 

The authors insist that:

[I]t is the irreformable teaching of the Church that capital punishment can in principle be legitimate, not merely to ensure the physical safety of others when an offender poses an immediate danger (a case where even John Paul II was willing to allow for the death penalty), but even for purposes such as securing retributive justice and deterring serious crime.

Both of these books provide insight and complexity to major issues and debates shaping society, and it would be interesting to learn just how many opinions and hearts are changed or reinforced by these works.

 

–Chris Chan